Our two main dimensions of life:

  • Our Desires

    • or the things we want to have or do, and
  • Our Actions

    • the things we are doing to satisfy our desires.
It is an Art to life a Balance life - and so is it to keep a good balance between what we Desire and what we Action about it.
Marius van der Merwe
I have huge respect for the man that keeps his family together - albeit in good times or on bad times.
Marius van der Merwe

Our Desires - Dimensions of Life

Our three main Desires in life

  • Recognition

    • we want to be "somebody" and want to be recognised for who we are and what we do or can do.
  • Growth

    • Nobody wants to stagnate and we want to become better in life, more knowledge, more money, more possessions.
  • To Belong

    • We want to belong to someone or a group and that is clearly indicated in the social media where people forms groups to be associated with.

Our Actions - Dimensions of Life

The Actions we take to satisfy our Desires

The things we are doing to satisfy our desires are based on the Maslow's theory of needs which consists of the following three levels:

  • Basic Needs

    • the things we need - just to survive or to be kept alive,
  • The Things to Enjoy

    • which consist of the first level of "reward" after your basic needs are covered.
  • Fulfilled Life

    • which is the ultimate award when you have achieved to life a successful and balanced life.

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